We are having two baby boys!!! I went for my ultra sound yesterday where they check all the body parts and organs and yes, we wanted to know their sexes. They told me not to take the labels off clothes, as they can't be 100% sure of the sex of each baby... go figure.
So if anyone wants to send their ideas for boy names... we'd love to hear them, silly and serious:-) We prefer traditional names.
There is a 1 in 3 chance that they are identical now. Once they are born, if they have the same blood type, then the only way to tell if they are identical or fraternal is to do a DNA test. So we may never know... I think there are other more important things though.
They are both healthy and growing well. Baby A is 14 ounces, and Baby B is 13 ounces.
I am not huge yet, yes, here is a photo of me and my bump. Don't look too closely... Sarah took the photo for me yesterday when we had a beautiful sunny day. (today is cold and windy:-()
I've been told I don't look like I'm 20 weeks pregnant yet.

I am feeling a lot better! I am not sicky any more:-) And I don't feel the need to eat every 2 hours. I do have reflux. and get back pain if I am on my feet for too long. But I have a lot more energy!!!
Sarah is loving preschool, and we think all the socialising is just what she needs. She thinks that the boy babies will mess up her room and not clean up! But is excited to help feed and change them. and hold them!! and pull faces at them:-) and make them laugh and smile. It keeps all of us busy. She loves Groovy Girl dolls and still polly pockets and Barbies. She still loves crafts and enjoys making all kinds of things at school. She has started reading, and has fun when she does it and it isn't too hard... but often just doesn't want to try. i'm not pushing her, as she doesn't have to read yet! it's more important to play and socialise. She loves writing words too, and will either spell them herself, or ask us how to spell them:-) She still loves watching her DVDs from the library and reading lots of stories. Sarah is totally thrilled that Halloween is next week Friday. She is hoping to do lots of trick or treating. I hope that the weather will not be as cold as today:-) and I might stay home and hand out cookies or something... my tummy pulls when I walk for long.
Sarah is also enjoying her ballet classes! At first I had to go in with her, cos the teacher was different from last time. But now she is happy to go in by herself. And she loves to dance. And sing. Still our little performer. She loves making and having friends. And made a new friend who lives in the same building as us!! which is great because she is about the same age! Sarah loves talking to the babies, and patting and tickling my tummy. And most of the time when she makes up a joke it has something to do with baby in the punch line, whether it makes any sense or not.
Sarah loves to throw tantrums, or just cry! when she doesn't get what she wants, like pulling the cord on the bus so the driver knows someone wants to get off. Sometimes other people get off at the same stop as us (imagine that:-) and don't know she wants to pull the cord and they do it instead!!! and then we have drama on our hands... And she cries and tells us that we have hurt her feelings when we do something she doesn't like... she doesn't seem to grasp that she hurts our feelings too, but at least she is using her words to express her emotions and thoughts. She loves to play with Ryan, sword fighting or wrestling or any game she can.
Ryan always makes time for her. I don't think she realises how much. He is so busy!!! With school and work. He comes home, spends time with us and plays and helps, and then he's back to work in some form or another. It is going to be interesting to see how we cope when 2 brand new babies arrive, and if he can get enough sleep to function at school!! He doesn't have time for much of anything at the moment. Hopefully things will be easier once the semester ends, just before Christmas.
My parents are coming out to visit us and help us and welcome these babes into the world!! They want to stay for at least 2 months, cos they know we will be needing a lot of help. We are all praying for somewhere nearby where they can stay for free! Being in retirement with all the markets crashing, and our exchange rate getting knocked to more than 10 rand to 1 dollar. So any added prayers are welcome:-) Sarah is so excited about them coming!!! And of course, we all our. I am excited to show them where we live and what things are like here. Madison has so much to do and is so beautiful. Though it will probably be covered in snow in mid-Feb or so when they arrive! hopefully it will start to warm up soon after that, and they'll be able to experience Spring here, which I believe is gorgeous! and the best time to be in Madison.
Anywho, I need some rest. I put the scans on last.
Can you see the baby's whole leg and foot?
Baby's face profile...
Can you see the babies heads below? One baby is lying above the other at the moment.



October 22, 2008 at 6:40 PM
Wow--I just found your blog off of Trisha's, and what a great family you have! Congratulations on the twins. That's big news. My parents were living in Appleton, WI, until a year ago or so... Nice to visit in the summer. Those twins will keep you warm this winter, though.
Take care,
Sister D. (Holly)
October 22, 2008 at 6:57 PM
That is so exciting. We are so happy that things are going well. It's so fun to see two babies on the ultrasound instead of just one. I can't believe how tiny you are for 20 weeks with twins! We're praying that things continue to go well for the you and the pregnancy and you're able to keep those babies in there for as long as possible. I'm glad to hear that Sara is in pre-school. I'm sure he absolutely loves it. Sorry about the tantrums. Those don't sound fun, and hopefully she'll give them up soon. I'm glad to hear all is well and that despite Ryan being so busy, he still manages to find time to spend with the two of you, and I'm glad your parents are coming to help when the twins come. I'm sad I won't be there to help. Good luck. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
-- Melissa
October 22, 2008 at 7:44 PM
How exciting that you are having two boys! You are so tiny! I think my belly was as big as yours at 20 weeks, but I only had one baby! You look good! Congrats on the boys!
October 22, 2008 at 9:40 PM
Hey, Tish!! How about Abraham and Isaac. Or maybe Thomas and James. Or Michael and Michael... That'd be cute. Two m names. Matt and Mike. Actually. I have twin cousins named Matthew and Michael.
I actually really like Matthew a lot. I have a cousin named Marcus too, and we call him that. No one calls him Mark. If I have any more ideas, I'll let you know.
October 22, 2008 at 10:23 PM
Tish-
So, so exciting. Twin boys!!! (double trouble!:). What an amazing time for you guys. Springs in WI are fantastic. Absolutely beautiful, but they do come far after February. February will be cold and probably full of a lot of snow. It will be wonderful to have your parents in town. You look amazing for 20 weeks along BTW.
October 22, 2008 at 10:37 PM
Hey Tish Congrats on the Boy's. Boy's are so fun. They seem to have a little less drama in there lives, but seem to be a little more active. Thats how it is with my little guy. We are so happy for you. I love the names William, Brett and also Andrew. You do look really good for 20 weeks. My sister in law is expecting twins in Feb. also and she looks so good. Good luck with everything. Jessica
October 22, 2008 at 11:22 PM
Woah, you totally don't look that pregnant! 1 in 3 chance? How fun! I'm so excited for you guys!
October 23, 2008 at 2:01 AM
Hey Tish - this is great! We have some names to come up with ourselves... baby #4 is on the way (due early May) - we're 12 weeks already but have just started spreading the news after our doc's appointment yesterday. You look good! Hope it all carries on going well and keep us updated. Lotsa love and hugs, Sam & fam ;)
October 23, 2008 at 3:56 AM
hey tishala,
you are so tiny - especially for twins, lucky girl!
my name recs are luke and james. miss you lots - tb
October 23, 2008 at 9:12 AM
Tish, we're so happy things are going well and that your parents get to come out for the birth! How exciting! I can't wait to see more pics as you grow...
October 23, 2008 at 10:09 AM
Congratulations on the two boys. I am so happy for you. I am happy to hear you are doing well too. Sarah is so cute, I love that she took that picture of you, it was really good! We will say some prayers that you can find somewhere for your parents to stay.
October 26, 2008 at 10:38 PM
Hey, you! You look great but (maybe I shouldn't tell you this) what you look like at 35 weeks will be a different story. I've been visiting Bethany in the hospital, she's 36 wks today. Babies are doing great but Mom has totally had it. Little Bethany is 192lbs and swollen beyond recognition. Though she looks and feel horrible, fortunately she is still healthy. Beside this last month or so, watching the development of Lily and Liam has been amazing. I can't get enough of the tummy touching. I wish I could harass your little guys too.
So names, how about David and Jonathan, best friends,though you might be setting them up for certain expectations. Andrew and David. Daniel and Michael. Graeme or Graham and Alex. Douglas and James. James and Henry ie Hank, Hal, Harry. I'll try to think of some more. There are a lot of boys names I like. Sorry about the novel. Love ya.
October 29, 2008 at 11:37 PM
Boys! How fun! Is Sara excited? You will be a great mommy to them! I am so excited for you! You look so cute with your little belly bump!
October 30, 2008 at 1:09 PM
Koos en Jannie.
Of Piet en Jaco.
Very delicious and very boer traditional. Like for good boerewors. Lekker kief.
Adam and Aidan. Aidan and Adam.
James and Jack. Jack and James.
Jono and Justin. Justin and Jono.
Karl and Kieran. Kieran and Karl.
Daniel and Dylan. Dylan and Daniel.
Shane and Saul. Saul and Shane.
Cole and Chad. Chadand Cole.
My comments,
Inspeckta Deteckta.
November 16, 2008 at 7:43 PM
Congratulations...how long are your parents here for? We have a guest room but I'm in and out for a lot of the month...let me know...
P.S. Names? I like David and Goliath, depending on which one's bigger. :-)